Win Her Heart Back to Get Her Back

If you lost your wife because of neglect you probably now regret it. Since most women are very emotional, they will stray of leave if they feel their emotions are not being cared for.

If you want to get our ex wife back you’ve got to win her heart back by showing her that her emotions are now safe with you – by appealing to the emotions that caused her to fall for you in the first place.

The first step in winning her back is through contact. Plan  your first contact very carefully with an accidental (but planned) encounter. During times of contact it is important to remain attentive and to respect and even value her point of view. Be very attentive and look for clues that she’s interested or at least happy to see you.

Do not try to play games with your ex.  She is one of the few people that know you extremely well and will be able to tell if and when you are playing games. For this reason it is important to subtly let her know your intentions. If you feel comfortable letting her know your intentions, do this very subtly.

It is most important for you to do the kind of romantic things that you didn’t do the first time around – like flowers and little notes. Do not allow her to view you as just a friend, as once this occurs that is all you will ever be (there will no longer be any chance of reclaiming the relationship). To prevent this from happening ensure you remain slightly detached, and do not overuse emotion as a means of trying to get ex back.

Make sure that you pay attention to the things that you know she cares about and that includes things about you – like fitness and dress. Seeing an improvement in your physical appearance or how you now dress will grab her attention, make her think twice about the end of the relationship, and increase your chances to get ex back. It will also serve to keep her thinking about you.

So the strategy is to win back her heart. If you do not think that these changes are sustainable, it is advisable to refrain from starting the relationship over, as there will only be more heartbreak further down the track.  In this way you’ll greatly improve the chances of getting your ex back.