Win A Guy Back – 4 Simple Tips

You may want know how to win your guy back once the pizazz is gone.  Even if he’s dating someone else, the feelings of attraction that inspired the relationship in the first place can be rejuvenated with these 4 simple steps.

Trust is the keyword in the first step, make him trust you.  Be around him as much as possible, let him know that you’re available when he needs to get something off his chest.  An open mind and neutral frame of mind is the key.  A man doesn’t appreciate being judged or made to feel bad when he opens up and shares his emotions and thoughts.  Gaining true intimacy is paramount to bringing back your guy.

Being open-minded and understanding is the second step, but don’t put yourself in the position of being a pushover, don’t let him use you for a doormat.  You don’t want to be seen as an anxious puppy, too eager to please. You’re setting yourself up to be taken advantage of and you don’t want that.  Keep on an even keel. Let him know your opinions and feelings in matters of importance.  It’s a thin line between being judgmental and simply letting him know that you have thoughts and feelings as well.  Don’t try to bend his thoughts and opinions to suit you, that’s being judgmental.  The distinction between the two is very important.

Remind him of the good times – that’s your third important move.  If you’re trying to win your guy back, you probably had some very nice times together.  Keeping those pleasant memories in mind will help him see why he liked you so much in the first place.  One thing you absolutely do not want to do is bring up unpleasant past times, that will only throw off your plans to get him back.

Your fourth step should involve letting him know how you feel about him.  Don’t be too effusive, too quickly. Make sure he’s definitely starting to like you again before you get all gushy.  Following the first three steps should make you successful in getting yourself back into his heart.  You’ll know you’ve hit a home run if he starts flirting again, or checking you out when you’re not looking.  You might have to massage his ego, he might be feeling a little embarrassed for leaving you in the first place.  He might need a little face-saving, so give him a hand.  When the time is right, let him know that you think that you two made a good couple and that it would be worth it for both of you to get back together.

Take things slowly, be persistent, and you’ll win your guy back.  Be patient. Even if things aren’t unfolding as quickly as you like, the positive thoughts you’re placing in his head will make him come around and make him want you back.

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