Weird Tips To Getting Back With An Ex

People have lots of different ideas about how relationships work.  I’m sure as soon as your family members found out you were single, they had all kinds of advice on what you could have done better or how to get a new person in your life.  Your family have how to win back the ex or how to find a new relationship.

Unfortunately, lots of these people are mistaken.  For instance, many people will advise you to make your ex jealous to get their attention and make them realize how much they miss you.  This is partially correct. 

Yes, it will get their attention and yes they might miss you, but then they will be mad at you again and think how much better off they are without you. Do you really want to do that in the end.  In the end, you are only going to hurt yourself!  If you want to blow their socks off, you have to make them miss and admire you at the same time.

If your ex sees you being a great person, , they will miss you and wish they were having those great vibes with you.  They will disregard why you broke up in the first place.  That’s the great thing about being human, our focus can change in a second and we can go in an entirely new direction at a moments notice!

Another tip I always stress is the silent month after you break up.  After your ex breaks up with you, don’t even think about talking to them for a month.  This is where a lot of people go wrong.  They think if they can just explain what happened, everyone will get over the issue that cause the breakup and we will be all good to go.  This isn’t the case at all! Trust me, this isn’t how you get back with ex!

You might not understand the issue, once the breakup happens, feelings get hurt and people get angry.  It doesn’t matter if you know just what to say if the other person is angry.  You need to give them and yourself a whole month to cool off.  This will let you talk about it with them with a little perspective and clearer head.

This also helps the other person miss you.  Your ex can’t decide they miss you if you are always up in their face trying to get back together or on the other end, always up in their face about ignoring them or being a ‘good friend.’ Take this free advice from me: You can either get back together with an ex or you can move on without them, but you can never be real friends ever again.  So if you want them in your life, get them back! In the end, you’ll win your ex back!