Implementing Relationship Psychology To Enhance Relations

It seems like I’ve been on a merry go round of relationships for more years than I care to speak about. I start each one with lots of hope and enthusiasm and am heartbroken when they end. So finally I was desperate and needed some ideas about what keeps going wrong and I began to do some research on the Internet.

And you know what? There are lots of people on the Internet that wish to offer you information about love and relationships! But I found an article by this guy named Michael Griswold that talks about relationship psychology.

It wasn’t at all what I expected when I first started reading it. I was fearful it would be some boring article just talking about what relationship psychology is, but instead it talks about the way to USE relationship psychology to boost your relationships.

As an example, he talks about how nothing remains the same in life, including relationships, so it just messes things up when you try and force your relationship to always stay the same. That makes a lot of sense to me right?

I know that I would like to talk for hours and spend as much time as possible in the beginning with a new man and if I lose control because he wants to look at the game with his chums instead of taking me to the flicks then of course the relationship is going to start to go downhill.

What actually drew my attention was when he was talking about staying calm even if you are fighting or not speaking for some unknown reason. Simply because that is how it’s now doesn’t mean that things won’t get better later without you making an attempt to fix it.

I know in the past that I have panicked after fights or if I haven’t heard from my boyfriend in a couple of days. My imagination has run free and I usually finish up exclaiming or doing something that just doesn’t help.

Now don’t get me wrong, he’s not commending that you won’t ever have to work at the relationship or that there won’t ever be any issues, but I love the idea that I don’t have to panic simply because things aren’t going well. In truth he makes the point that you become more enticing when you are able to handle things quietly. And let’s face it girls, most guys hate drama.

Here is the link to the article since I know you will need to read it for yourself http://reunitedrelationships.com/main/relationship-psychology/ and take a look at the rest of blog as well for more concepts on using relationship psychology if that is what you are interested in.

Oh and here is a video he did on the topic too.