Getting a Lover back — How do I judge if my Ex is serious with me?

When you notice your ex is interested to spend more time with you, giving you extra attention and interest than before, these are good indications that your chance of getting a lover back is good. However, it is advisable not to over-react or jumping to conclusion. The question is therefore “How do I judge if my Ex is interested and serious with me”?

In general, there are some common indications and signs that your ex will show if he or she still have feelings towards you. As positive signs and indications may be misleading sometimes, it is good to remain cool. Therefore, I would recommend play hard to get (in moderation) to maintain your positioning and hide your feelings and anxiety even though you may be desperate to want her back. Jumping to conclusion and over reacting may drive your ex further away if the signal is felt and understood wrongly. Playing hard to get moderately will safeguard you from embarassing yourself when the positive signal is understood wrongly.

Whenever a break up happens, there is a natural element of missing each other as the reminder of happy memories that both of you had in your relationship come to your mind. This can usually happens in a relationship that broke up some time ago. Your ex will tend to miss you because of the many happy memories shared together. So if you wonder whether your ex wants to get back with you, your ex may also be thinking the same thing as you. However, do not overlook other emotions such as past regrets which are painful to your ex.

Do be careful of the negative as ex shows interest does not necessarily mean that they want to be back with you. There are cases where ex mislead you that they want you back when all they want is just your attention and time. Your ex may not be serious but spending time with you just to pass time since there is no prospects out there for the time being. It is always wise not to conclude your ex interest in you until you are very sure and confident of the situation.

Playing hard to get moderately is the best approach to use to test whether your ex wants to be back with you or not as you will save the hurt and embarassment even if your ex is not interested to be back with you. The above is just a simple way to test and getting a lover back but is not comprehensive as I dun intend to make this article too long.

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