Dirty Talk Secrets

If you’ve been wondering how to spice things up in the bedroom, talking dirty is a great way to start. Indifference and a sense of monotony can afflict a sexual relationship over time. Has this happened to you? Perhaps these days, having sex feels more like an “inconvenience” unless you’re both REALLY in the mood and feeling lively. Where did the romance and excitement go?

This sense of sensuality-lost can kill your love life over time. If you want to rev things up again, you’ll need to add a new element to your sex life!

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An easy way to begin spicing things up is with erotic words and phrases. Getting started can feel a bit strange at first. Maybe you said something dirty before, and it was taken out of context or even turned off your woman. Below are some suggestions to begin the right way and get comfortable with talking dirty.

Be You Unless you’re really a porn celebrity, abstain from acting like you’re in an x-rated flick with her. Your woman may take it as a bit strange. Demeaning lines such as “you’re a nasty little whore, aren’t you?” will usually come off the wrong way to the woman you love and share your life with. Instead, emphasize how much she is pleasuring you. Affectionately tell her how fantastic her body is, and how sexy she looks.

Hear how it sounds While alone in the car or someplace, blurt out a few phrases, and hear how they sound to you. Does it feel sexy, or weird? Then make a mental note of the lines that you will try this evening. Keep in mind that how she’ll respond to your talking dirty has a lot to do with how “connected” she feels to you.

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Kicking it off tonight Start off with some “aahh’s” and “oh, yeah” type sounds and phrases with some deep, obvious breaths. This will tell her that this is not just like any other sex you’ve had before, but that you’re feeling very passionate about this moment together.

Compliment Women absolutely love it when you tell them how hot and sexy they are to you! Tell her things like, “The way your ____ feels is so sexy,” or I love how curvy your body is”. Saying these phrases out loud can really get both of you more excited!

Voice your pleasures Every now and then,phrases such as “Oh, the way you rub against my _____ is so sexy”, or “I can’t wait to put my ____ into your _____”. There’s a very good chance that by now you’ve got her blurting out sexy lines too to make you hotter!

Keep it going After a few steamy nights like this, she may be up for some new variety! Maybe reading some dirty stories together, or watching some x-rated movies will be the next step to even hotter sex.

With taking a first step toward some more variety in the bedroom, you’ll be fascinated by how more steamy and erotic your sex life can be again!

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