Dealing with Your Partner’s Passive Aggressive Behavior

Does your partner attempt to control you? Or hides anger and has a fear of being controlled and an inability to deal straight with people?
If the answer is YES then you are dealing with a passive-aggressive person. Your partner may have unresolved personal pain from his childhood. There are other reasons why this kind of personality disorder occurs. It refers to behavior that results in unalterable and unchangeable attitude towards the environment as well as the people around the person.
There are symptoms such as:

• disagreeing with other people’s wishes and beliefs
• forgetting, complaining, disliking other people’s ideas
• giving sarcastic comments
• blaming other people

Your partner probably have problems with adjusting and creating relationships with other people. But you, as a partner, can help. It takes a lot of time to understand someone with this kind of behavior. But always remember, don’t expect too much of anything fundamental from him. You have to understand that being passive aggressive, is having an unhealthy personality.
You know what you want, having a companion to share wonderful moments in your life. But at some point, you start noticing that your companion is always uneasy, upset, and insecure with just about anything. You have to be aware of your partner’s behavior.
What would you do? Will you take the risk of entering another difficult relationship? The two of you must help one another in finding out the cause of your conflicting situation. It is important for you to make your partner realize that there is a problem.
A passive aggressive person is normally self motivated. So it is all up to your partner if he decides to change. Your partner must focus on every day problems as well as solutions. He must understand the problems even though there will be a denial at first. You must also help your partner establish control to lessen passive aggressive actions.

If you are spending too much time in a relationship that lacks intimacy, closeness nor cooperation, take a good look at your need to live with conflict. If you feel that you have done everything you can to save the relationship, and it seems that there is no significant change at all, consider leaving to find a better relationship. Or simply accept things as they are, then try to live a happy life anyway.

To your happiness,

Neil Warner
Creative Conflict Resolutions
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