Dating Advice For Gentlemen – Should You Be The Nice Guy?

Most men who have dated a number of women claim that it doesn’t work to be the nice guy. The guy with the little black book, who might or might not ring you, who acts as if life won’t really turn for the worse whether you accept or refuse his invitation, seems to be more attractive to the women.

Of course women want men to treat them like queens, but they too love a little challenge. It’s just that women are lured towards men with a strong backbone. This is the type of guy who hangs tight to his principles and beliefs, without being abusive. They seem to have a mind of their own and won’t normally fold up to a woman’s moanings and begging. Women will always like the nice guy for a friend, but they see one as weak, incapable of handling pressure and not standing up for what he believes in. While women enjoy this as they conquer every item they fancy, they will believe they have prevailed over a guy and lose a bit of respect for him.

What does this mean to all the guys? Well, you don’t have to be a jerk and be taunting to the women. You simply have to be a little more confident and true to yourself. Be very nice to every woman you meet, show some reverence to someone you like, but don’t let her think everything in your life will come to a halt simply because she’s around. Don’t be too cushy – women like the challenge as well as the attention.

Also be confident, even if you are tense. The most confident guys I know also seem to be great lovers – and this is no coincidence. My ex lover used Instant Performer to ensure he was up for it, which he learned about right after looking at a Instant Performer review in the media.

Don’t give in to all the whims of a woman you’re dating. Not only will she expect you to do the same all the time and take you for granted, but she will actually respect you less. She will whine, complain or even refuse to see you when she doesn’t get things done her way. This is not to tell you that you must never give in. Far from it. Just not every time. When a woman recognized you’re simply sensible rather than harsh on her, she will be happier. Never give in just because you’re not in the mood to argue. Compromise, on the other hand, is often the way to go.

Don’t ever doubt that a woman will think she doesn’t matter because you won’t give in. You can exhibit your love in more rewarding ways. A good way to show your love for her is by doing things she doesn’t ask for. Cook a meal for her or give her a compliment out of the blue instead of when it is being solicited. By doing the unexpected, you have achieved being loving without being a lap dog. You are being real instead of being predictable. Just be you and not anybody else, and be confident about it. Women will like you better that way than trying to be something you’re not.