6 Points To Consider When You’re Still Crazy About Ex Partner

One indicator that you’re still in love with ex lover is you still miss him/her despite the way you were rejected. Though you’re devastated because there’s already someone else, the love fizzled out or you’re not anymore his/her priority, you still can’t burn the letters, throw the pictures or delete his/her last message on your mobile phone. The feeling hasn’t died completely that if you found a magic lamp, you would wish for only one thing: you want your dearest to find the way back to you. But since genies exist only in fairy tales, read these tips to know how to pull him/her back to you.

Inhale and exhale.

When the emptiness your ex left in your heart is insatiable, you don’t seem to be in your senses. With spontaneity as your backup, you act as if carefulness is an enemy and the result hurts you more because you end up doing things you shouldn’t be. At this time, it’s important for you to regain your balance and avoid being subjective. Inhale, exhale and know where you stand before you act. More about this on getting over breakup.

Value yourself.

Be calm and don’t show other people how desperate you are. If you do, he/she would assume you want him/her back because you fear no one else would be interested to date you. Stop running after your ex because he/she will just turn to the other direction. Stop stalking because intruding will mess you up. Spare yourself some pride by not offering everything to him/her. Be positive. Let the positive emotions rule you.  

Welcome changes.

Try to develop a new hobby that wasn’t part of your routine with your ex. If you weren’t fond of going the beach, make swimming your regular exercise. If you used to be the indoor type, go trekking with a mountaineering group. It’s your diversion that will awaken his/her eavesdropping tendencies. When he/she sees you with a different aura, your ex will wonder what changes have happened since you split up.

Keep updated.

If you’re still in love with ex partner, closing the communication lines is a bad idea. Muster your courage to type him/her an email but as a buddy. Give important details about what’s happening in your life. Continue to meet your common friends. They will inform you of the things that he/she can’t directly say to you. This way, you’ll know where to stand and how to get him/her back.

Observe gestures.

If your ex still cares for you, you’ll notice the signs. The typical signs would include responding to your messages, purposely attending gatherings to see you and asking you and your friends out to enjoy your company. Feel his/her moves. Your years of being together will give you hints if it’s worth another try. Try to be unbiased with your observation. Otherwise, you end up cheating yourself. If you still believe that the relationship deserves second chance, go through get back together with ex for some things to consider before you actually do something.

Have a talk.

At the right time, initiate a serious conversation. Talk about your main issue, how you caused each other pain and which path you are taking. If your ex is enthusiastic about reminiscing your unforgettable moments, go on. Your nostalgia will confirm a few lines from the song of Regina Spektor. The last part of “The Call” says, “Let your memories grow stronger and stronger ‘til they’re before your eyes. You’ll come back when they call you. No need to say goodbye.”

If you’re in the middle of a still-in-love-with-ex issue, you try everything to put your relationship back on the road. However, remember that driving in full speed will only put you to danger. You’ll do better if you put on the seatbelt, follow the traffic lights, turn at the right corner and pull the brakes. I suggest that you do it under professional guidance. Here’s my suggestion: the magic of making up review.