3 Ways To Win Your Ex Back In Spite Of!

Can I get my ex back if he/she is asking for more space? Many might find it a little contradicting but giving your ex the space he/she calls for is actually a beneficial way to win him/her back. You see, when your ex demands for space, he/she is asking for time to mend and work through things alone. Or maybe you’re ex wished you to change into someone he/she desires; THUS, space is possibly the best thing you could ever give your ex.

How to win your ex back: If your ex is asking for space, give him/her that. BUT in the meanwhile that doesn’t mean that there aren’t things you can’t do to win him/her back! What you just learned about dealing with a breakup is just the beginning.Here are a few methods on how to win your ex back even if he/she wished to have some space:

Move on – Offer your ex the space that he/she wished and move on; at least that’s what your ex needs to think. Men by character are terrified of the unknown, we resented to feel deserted. Your ex isn’t sure if someone else out there will like him/her as much as you did, or if they will find a mate who knows what he/she wants or desires, etc… so that’s really scary. Nobody wants to be left behind and this is what your ex is bound to feel if he/she’ll learn that you had moved on.

Finding someone new is not easy and your ex will resort to going back to his/her comfort zone: you. Your ex will come back and will try and get back together with you, because that is more secure, familiar, and easy than having to start over again.

Disregard Your Ex – If your ex asks for space, it’s not the same thing as advising you to leave him/her alone once and for all. To clarify things, giving your ex the space he/she badly wanted further indicates that somehow, you have to leave a window of communication open; it’s the comfort zone of your ex. Your ex likes the idea of still having you there and around; BUT you should prove your ex wrong, proving him/her right will only make him/her take you for granted. Instead, show your ex that you are just fine even without him/her by avoiding to make contacts with him/her. When your ex realizes that you are not coming around at all then he/she will begin to believe things like you are dating with someone new, etc… This will give your ex the desire to do the first step in getting back with you and the more he/she thinks of you, the more that he/she will miss you.

Close The “Personal” Doors On Your Ex – When your ex comes back, he/she will seek answer to issues such as if you’re still single or not or if you still want him/her. You will be tempted to tell him/her the real score; but if you wanted to add a little suspense in the whole scenario just to get your ex more engaged with you, avoid doing so; that will certainly make your ex desire you all the more. This is because you had given your ex a taste of it before, but are now taking it away; a hot and cold effect which leads your ex to always try and get more from you.